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Dating safely

Most people you meet are exactly who they say. These habits protect you from the few who aren’t.

Report romance fraud

If someone you met online asks for money, crypto or gift cards, stop and report it to Report Fraud at reportfraud.police.uk or on 0300 123 2040. Report Fraud replaced Action Fraud in December 2025. If you have already sent money, call your bank straight away. In an emergency, call 999.

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Know the warning signs

Be careful if things move very fast or feel very intense early on, or if someone keeps avoiding meeting in person or a live video call. Never send money to someone you have not met face to face, and talk to a friend if something feels off.

Source: Report Fraud: Romance fraud news

Check the tide at St Mary's

St Mary's Lighthouse is on a tidal island, and the causeway is only safe to cross at set times each day. Check North Tyneside Council's safe crossing times before you go, watch the clock while you are there, and look at the lighthouse's Facebook page for closures.

Source: North Tyneside Council: Safe crossing and visitor centre opening times

Further readingOur sister site Smooch explains how romance fraud works and how to report a romance scam in the UK. WhichDating, our sister review site, explains the signs of a dating scammer.

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